The day your child was born is likely to top your list of the most memorable days you’ve ever had or ever will have. You will have no bond stronger than the one between you and your child. Apply these tips to communicate with your child and build strong connections.
Clear off a space on the kitchen counter, lay your child back on a rolled towel, and run water from the faucet over the hair and scalp. Many toddlers fear having their hair rinsed by dunking their head underwater, so this method should take away some of that anxiety.
It is frequently difficult for preschoolers to make transitions. It can be stressful to make an abrupt switch from one activity to another, and your child’s behavior may suffer.
Never give any child under three years of age any type of soda to drink. Give your baby nutritious beverages, like milk and sugar-free juices; water is also important for proper hydration.
Take a break once in a while. Even if you are only able to get away for a one or two hours, ask a trusted friend or family member to watch your kids for you. Parents that do not get personal or adult time away from children have higher levels of stress that magnify throughout the home.
Each child is unique. Techniques that have worked with some children may not work with others. This applies to both rewards and punishment. It is important to remember what you have, and have not, tried in the past.
Toddlers often have more toys than they can possibly play with. Rotate them in and out of their toy box to keep them new and interesting. Most toddlers will not play with a toy that much after two or three days unless it happens to be one of their most treasured items. Rotating your toddlers toys, helps to keep them interested, without having to buy new toys all the time.
It is only realistic to accept that your stepchild will need some time before they feel close enough to you to accept you as a friend and family member. Kids are often upset that their parents split up, and may take that resentment out on you. Take your time and don’t rush things, so that any stepchildren can take their time getting to know you and feeling comfortable with you.
Birth Family
If you adopted your child, be ready for him to ask questions once he is at the age when they realize they are different than the rest of the family. Many children that are adopted become curious about their birth family. When they have questions about this, they will expect you to provide them with some answers. Avoid lying to them when it comes to the truth about their birth family, as it can cause them to feel resentful toward you if the truth comes out.
If you are traveling by plane with young children, try to use the security checkpoint designated for families. Many airports now have them in place. This allows you to pace yourself without rushing your children through the longer lines. You will have to run everything through the x-ray machine including the kids shoes and car seats.
It is immensely important to establish a respectful, loving relationship with your young child so that when they become a teenager you will have that healthy foundation for open communication. Teenage years can be a difficult time to try to start an ease for dialogue. Use the tips mentioned in this article to start that relationship or strengthen it.